Sun Jul 15, 2012 1:12 pm
More specifically, the "Options" text link at the bottom left of the start-up screen. From there you need to press the "Optional Skills Preset" button at the bottom right. Leave the Enabled column as is (green checkmarks) and click the red x in the Ask column to change it to a green checkmark. Don't forget to save your changes.
Now you will be asked whether you want to use the skill when the situation comes up during a game. In other words, if you activate Ask on the Wrestle skill, when you block someone or are blocked and your player has the Wrestle skill, you will be asked if you want to use it or not. In that dialog window red x means no and green checkmark means yes, the same as in the options.
Jester, I'm sure you already know these things but I wrote them down to help new players.